Being a Horrible Parent

Whether your child has been sexually abused or not, just about every parent thinks they are a horrible parent at some point.   It’s one of those ideas that others generally don’t point out to you, but we beat ourselves up over and then look for proof that...

Winter Blues

Most people have heard the term winter blues.  It’s also known as seasonal affective disorder, or it’s appropriate acronym SAD.  If you are new to the concept, it is especially prevalent in northern regions where there isn’t as much sunlight in the...

When you can’t protect your kids

When you get married most people start off with a short list of things that you promise to do that usually ends with “til death do you part”.  It gets modified based on personal preference and believes but it is still a part of the standard contract.  Fatherhood has a...

Facing the Fear

I recently watched an episode of Breakthrough with Tony Robbins about a woman who was completely paralyzed by fear.  Her daughter had been in a freak accident and was dead for a couple minutes before being brought back by medial personnel.  Since then she was complete...

You’re Fried!

No I didn’t just misquote “The Donald”.   Finding out that your child has been molested will find you strapped into an unplanned adrenaline ride that seems to go on for a very, very, very long time.   It starts with the initial rush and possibly a...